• ACP Home
    • A Conscious Partner
    • The 6 Conscious Principles >
      • Recognition
      • Responsibility
      • Acceptance
      • Authenticity
      • Transparency
      • Consistency
    • A Conscious Relationship
    • The 8 Conscious Connections >
      • Chemistry Connection
      • Conflict Connection
      • Emotional Connection
      • Financial Connection
      • Life Style Connection
      • Physical Connection
      • Sexual Connection
      • Spiritual Connection
  • Events
    • Foundation Events
    • March 2021 - J
    • April 2021 - K
    • May 2021 - L
    • Lifetime Members
    • All Events List
  • Programs
    • Marriage Prep
    • Relationship Rehab
  • Hosts
    • Bruce Dougherty
    • Dr. Gisèle Tennant
    • U35 - Kate / Jaggie
  • Quick Links
    • Support Conscious
    • Reviews
    • Join Us
    • Personality
    • Dating Consciously
    • The 5 Whys
    • Documents
    • About Us >
      • Bruce Bio
      • Gisele Bio
      • Jaggie Bio
    • Blogs >
      • Blog Bruce
      • Blog Gisele
      • Blog Jaggie
  • June 2021 - A
A Conscious Partner
  • ACP Home
    • A Conscious Partner
    • The 6 Conscious Principles >
      • Recognition
      • Responsibility
      • Acceptance
      • Authenticity
      • Transparency
      • Consistency
    • A Conscious Relationship
    • The 8 Conscious Connections >
      • Chemistry Connection
      • Conflict Connection
      • Emotional Connection
      • Financial Connection
      • Life Style Connection
      • Physical Connection
      • Sexual Connection
      • Spiritual Connection
  • Events
    • Foundation Events
    • March 2021 - J
    • April 2021 - K
    • May 2021 - L
    • Lifetime Members
    • All Events List
  • Programs
    • Marriage Prep
    • Relationship Rehab
  • Hosts
    • Bruce Dougherty
    • Dr. Gisèle Tennant
    • U35 - Kate / Jaggie
  • Quick Links
    • Support Conscious
    • Reviews
    • Join Us
    • Personality
    • Dating Consciously
    • The 5 Whys
    • Documents
    • About Us >
      • Bruce Bio
      • Gisele Bio
      • Jaggie Bio
    • Blogs >
      • Blog Bruce
      • Blog Gisele
      • Blog Jaggie
  • June 2021 - A

Do I Want A Conscious Partner?

12/9/2019

3 Comments

 
Picture
Do I Want “A Conscious Partner”?
Of course I do... who wouldn’t?
 
There’s a reason I desire a Conscious Partner.
In my heart, I know how special it will be.
The connection... mentally, emotionally... and physically.  
But do I really understand what it means to find one?

Attracting a Conscious Partner will require me to also be conscious.
To take control of and regulate everything that is me.
 All of it, even the parts that I don’t want to address.
Am I willing to put in the effort required in order to attract what I seek?

It’s not for the faint of heart.
Hopes and prayers will not get me there.
Opening my third eye will not get me there.
Words, platitudes and avoiding the truth of who I am... will not get me there.

There is only one way to get there.
I must know myself. Understand myself.
Recognition, Authenticity, Transparency, Responsibility, Consistency, Acceptance
The 6 Conscious Principles
 
Knowing, understanding and examining every aspect of myself will get me started.
Letting go of the walls around my heart and my mind will keep me on the path.
Truly forgiving everyone who has ever wronged me will get me further.
Forgiving myself will have me even closer.
 
And then just one more step will take me over the top.
The ability to truly accept myself... to be able to laugh at my own flaws.
Sure, I can adjust some of them, but not all of them.
They’re mine.... and they are what make me who I am.
 
Nobody’s perfect, and that means we all have flaws.
I have to identify mine, change the ones I can change.
And then learn to accept and live with what remains.
Without transferring the responsibility for my flaws to someone else.
 
So how do I know when I’m being unconscious?
It’s actually pretty easy when I pay attention.
My words and actions quickly reveal my state of mind.
I simply need to listen to what I say and really "feel" my emotions. That’s all it takes.
 
If I am unconscious I will react, rather than respond.
I will get defensive rather than curious.
I will find someone to blame instead of accepting my part and then addressing the issues at hand.
And I will constantly feel disrespected and let down. I will always be the victim.
 
I get to decide if I want to be conscious.
I can choose to put in the effort.
I can choose to open up... to release... to grow.
Or not.
 
In time, I will attract a partner that is roughly as “conscious” as I am.
It is at that point that we will either grow together... or we will grow apart.
I will not be able to control what she will want to do.
How much effort she will want to put in.
 
I can only control me.
My effort. My growth.
And that is what I choose to do.
Maybe one day someone will join me.
Picture
Picture
3 Comments
K2
12/10/2019 07:06:19 pm

This is so true, if only All people would acknowledge:

My words and actions quickly reveal my state of mind.
I simply need to listen to what I say and really "feel" my emotions. That’s all it takes.

Reply
essay writer uk link
12/30/2019 07:29:12 pm

Before entering a certain relationship, we need to think that there is no such thing as perfect partner. If you want to succeed in marriage and be with someone forever, you need to understand that allowing a ,little space for mistakes is a must because on one is perfect; even you is not exempted to commit mistakes! But having a “conscious partner” is a good thing. Having a partner with that kind of attitude makes the life way more lighter and will always be a blessing from the man above!

Reply
nancy link
1/16/2020 05:04:15 pm

My comment is this....while I will agree with some things you say...I too have abandoned online dating because men...most of the men I met were not interested in relationships at all and just sex...I would say yeah...cya...and that was that....they could care less because there are many women who will have sex on a first date...I am not one of them. What I want to say to you...is this...take time to get to know someone first....whether you meet that person online or in real life...to me it makes no difference. Sex too soon is the reason why you are not developing a solid relationship. Me...I am alone and single and have zero desire to go back online...and whether I meet a guy in real life...through a set up etc....Sex too soon is just that too soon

Reply



Leave a Reply.

    Archives

    December 2019
    July 2018
    May 2018
    April 2018
    February 2018
    January 2018
    November 2017

    Picture
Proudly powered by Weebly
  • ACP Home
    • A Conscious Partner
    • The 6 Conscious Principles >
      • Recognition
      • Responsibility
      • Acceptance
      • Authenticity
      • Transparency
      • Consistency
    • A Conscious Relationship
    • The 8 Conscious Connections >
      • Chemistry Connection
      • Conflict Connection
      • Emotional Connection
      • Financial Connection
      • Life Style Connection
      • Physical Connection
      • Sexual Connection
      • Spiritual Connection
  • Events
    • Foundation Events
    • March 2021 - J
    • April 2021 - K
    • May 2021 - L
    • Lifetime Members
    • All Events List
  • Programs
    • Marriage Prep
    • Relationship Rehab
  • Hosts
    • Bruce Dougherty
    • Dr. Gisèle Tennant
    • U35 - Kate / Jaggie
  • Quick Links
    • Support Conscious
    • Reviews
    • Join Us
    • Personality
    • Dating Consciously
    • The 5 Whys
    • Documents
    • About Us >
      • Bruce Bio
      • Gisele Bio
      • Jaggie Bio
    • Blogs >
      • Blog Bruce
      • Blog Gisele
      • Blog Jaggie
  • June 2021 - A