Patterns Assessment

This section gathers the key information we’ll use in your INSIGHT session


You don’t need to interpret anything yet — just complete each step and record your results.


Answer the questions based on how you are when you’re not at your best.

(During conflict?)


There are no right or wrong answers — just be honest.




Complete these in order.

Step 1

A.C.E.'s Assessment

10 questions • ~10 minutes


This looks at early life experiences that may still influence how you respond today.

Your total reflects how many experiences you answered “Yes” to.


Write down your total number



Step 2

Big 5 Personality Assessment

5 Dimensions • ~15-30 minutes


This identifies your core personality traits and natural tendencies across different situations.

Write Down Your 5 Numbers


Step 3

Saboteurs Assessment

9 Types • ~20-30 minutes


This reveals the internal patterns that interfere

with how you think, feel, and respond — especially under pressure.

Write Down Your 9 Numbers


Step 4

Relationship Schema Assessment

11 Categories • ~20-40 minutes


This highlights deeper belief patterns formed

through past experiences that continue to influence your reactions.

Write Down Your 11 Numbers


Step 5

Final Patterns Assessment

More Questions + Enter Your Numbers  • ~20-40 minutes


This step brings everything together.


Make sure steps 1-4 are complete before starting.


You’ll enter your previous results and answer additional questions

so we can map how your patterns are formed and how they show up.