It means responding to each other intentionally as opposed to reacting to each other based on habits and fears from the past. It's the ability and desire to truly accept each other despite the many flaws that we may have and how suddenly they may come and go! |
It means truly and unconditionally appreciating and respecting our partner even though we are entirely different and complete people,
with separate thoughts, feelings and ideas. It's about understanding each other on multiple levels and respecting, or even seeing the attraction in the way that the differences can help both of you grow. |
Chasing the Relationship Undermines the Connection
When our goal is specific, in this case a "relationship", we tend to misrepresent ourselves and over-idealize our partner to "achieve" our goals. We are not trying to "connect" with a person; we are trying to get and keep an "asset".
Our relationships struggle when we are not truly "connected". When we haven't taken the time to sincerely get to know and understand each other in all the ways that lead to a long term relationship, we end up in short term relationships!
Our relationships struggle when we are not truly "connected". When we haven't taken the time to sincerely get to know and understand each other in all the ways that lead to a long term relationship, we end up in short term relationships!
The 8 Conscious Connections can help couples to improve their connection and
singles to be sure that they are connected before making a commitment!
It's not about being a "match", it's about understanding and being "compatible".
singles to be sure that they are connected before making a commitment!
It's not about being a "match", it's about understanding and being "compatible".
Click on each of the titles below to get more information on each connection!
Chemistry does not mean that you never have disagreements; it means that you don't fear conflict and you can be open and honest with each other. 
More often than not, something that isn't all that serious escalates into a "fight", and before we know it, there is complete chaos in the relationship. 
An Emotional Connection happens when you can trust that your partner is supportive, committed, respectful, and engaged in the relationship. 
Spirituality is a very broad concept that incorporates a vast array of very personal ideals. It's important to find a partner that is consistent with your ideals and values. Click on Each Connection to
Review the 10 Elements! |
It's Important to be
Connected in all 8 Areas! 
When it comes to money and romance, there can be a natural tension. Everyone has a different idea about finances, and how much we want to reveal. 
A partner should somewhat match the lifestyle that we have established or one that we are developing. It's hard to adopt a lifestyle that doesn't feel comfortable. 
If you are planning for a physical relationship, then it is essential to be attracted physically. Many will say "looks shouldn't matter"....but we all know that they do. 
Sex and intimacy are two different things. There is a "gap" that forms in many relationships that is actually just the loss of intimacy, which is vital to "connecting". |
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For relationships to really work, it's important that we both live, and continue to develop, our relationship on multiple levels. In too many cases, we only connect on a few levels, and that's not enough to maintain a long-term relationship. The more we understand and grow, the different connections will ultimately decide whether we are in the relationship for the short or long-term. |
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Whether single, or already in a committed relationship, it’s a good idea to go through the 10 elements of each connection and ask ourselves and each other some key questions. The answers could make all the difference with respect to the future of the relationship. As mentioned earlier, it's not about being identical, because no two people will ever be that. The goal is to develop true awareness of each other. |
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