Why Do We Have Conflict?
Because we don't know the rules!
The vast majority of us have never been properly educated on what it means to effectively deal with conflict in a relationship.
Unfortunately, most of us have learned, or have modeled our conflict behaviors, based on the most fruitless ways to deal with conflict in a fair and effective manner.
As we have all experienced, issues usually start out innocently enough but then they quickly escalate. It's easy for something to be poorly communicated or taken out of context, as we all think differently!
That's because we have different moods, different upbringings, different experiences and different perceptions of almost every subject and situation. We have different attachment styles, different personalities, different core values and we often are "fighting" because we have fears that are being triggered and needs that aren't being met.
The Key to Conscious Conflict
Handling conflict effectively is all about Awareness and Desire:
An Awareness of the Rules
An Awareness of Ourselves
An Awareness of our Partner
A Desire to Resolve
A Desire to Understand
A Desire to Grow the Relationship
The information on this page is clearly explained and presented in an online event we call "The Conflict Connection", which is one of 48 different events that we host as a part of "The Conscious Quest".
Dealing with conflict is about understanding all aspects of ourselves and our fun and interactive events will support you in that journey.
Conflict is a complicated and contentious problem in most relationships and here are the Ten Keys to develop your Conflict Connection.