Don't Feel Shallow!
People are going to be attracted to people that they find attractive!
If you are planning for a physical relationship,
then it is essential to be physically attracted to that person.
Many will suggest that "looks shouldn't matter".
But we all know that they do.
We are not here to tell you what you should find attractive, only that you want to be with or find someone that is attractive to you!
It is up to you to decide what it is that you find attractive. We do not all decide the same way.
The choices vary among individuals, across cultures, across times of life and times in history.
It's important to remember that attraction levels can change as we get to know someone.
Someone that may not be attractive initially, can become more attractive to us over time as they reveal their great personality.
The opposite is also true. Somebody very attractive initially can become less attractive over time if they begin to reveal a personality that is less than desirable.
Attraction leads to passion and connection.
It can make you feel "wanted" and who doesn't like that?
It can also be a key ingredient to holding things together
during the rough patches that every relationship will go through.